Cunnilingus can be the best thing in the whole entire world. To be fair though, vulvas and vaginas are tough to navigate. They're all different and enjoy a variety of things—sometimes simultaneously. So, we get it, figuring out what each woman is into can be challenging to say the least. Some women like turbo-pressure on their clit, and others prefer a low-key flat tongue pressing against their vulva—though, who can know until you ask or try?
Sex columnist Anka Radakovich explains how to give your partner great oral sex and have her coming back for more. What do women really want? As a single, hetero woman, I have been with men who ranged from the one who had no idea what he doing downtown to another who was so skilled that I put a framed photo of his tongue on my desk. With just a few simple techniques, you can easily become a cunning linguist. Before you even start, giving a woman an orgasm comes down to one thing; the clitoris. It just wants to be rubbed. Orgasms are not going to magically happen through thrusting penetration alone.